Did God engage in genocide? What does the Bible say about homosexuality? Why did God destroy Sodom and Gomorrah? And how does all this apply to our lives today?
Wouldn’t it be neat if we used our disagreements to seek some kind of dialogue? How about engaging those you disagree with actual facts and perspectives that might bring some light to a subject as opposed to heat?
The Pilgrim's Progress author knew a thing or two about suffering. He lost his first wife. His oldest daughter was born blind, he himself suffered in prison, and he saw the deaths of friends.
If someone demands a specific behavior from you but excludes themselves from having to behave the same way they are by their own definition immoral and they are stealing from you!